This Blog is dedicated to my wonderful amazing mother, who has taught me everything I know, not the least of which being the importance of a good cup of tea and a love for all things Austen! Without her I would not be the person I am today, I love you mom, the following recipe is dedicated to you!
1. Ambiance

2. Physical Comfort
When it comes to comfort, choosing the right clothes is a must. So when choosing what to wear for this special you time, make sure you pick clothes that you can lounge in without any discomfort. A soft cotton T-shirt and flannel Pajamas are my personal preference. Physical comform also means picking out the right place to sit or lie down, so take the time to make sure you are chosing a place that you can be comfortable in for a while and deciding if you will want a soft blanket (or two!) in easy reach.
Nothing says comfort like a nice drink, whether hot or cold. Hot drinks depend on the season, although there is nothing to say that Hot Chocolate cannot be just as nice in the middle of summer as it is in winter. For hot drinks choose something that you enjoy that adds to the feeling of relaxation, such as Tea or Coffee. For Spring I like Coffee, Summer I like Tea (Fruit or White are good), Fall I like Hot Cider with a little Cinnamon, and for winter I like Hot Chocolate with little marshmallows. For cold drinks there are plenty of options, and even cold variations on the hot drinks mentioned above. Again, this is about your preference, so pick something you like.
4. Food
Everyone has their own favorite comfort food, whether it is a rich chocolate cake, or pasta with meat sauce. When deciding what treat to have for your relaxing time, it helps to think about what kinds of food would best accompany the chosen drink, or vice versa. For example, if I chose Hot Apple Cider as my drink, I would either choose a Molasses cookie or a cinnamon spice donut as my treat, or if Tea is your choice, try Biscotti or a Lemon cake. Food and drink must complement each other for maximum enjoyment.
5. Means of Entertainment
When it comes to relaxing and having a comfortable afternoon, choosing the right activity is probably the most important part, since the activity is going to determine what room you will want to use, and which refreshments are going to accompany you. If your relaxing afternoon is a solitary event, reading a good book or watching a favorite movie can be fun. There are so many kinds of books and movies out there that it can be hard to choose, so think about how much time you have and whether or not a nap is part of the plan before deciding on which book or movie is going to be your means of entertainment.
For the girl who enjoys all things Jane Austen, I suggest Pride and Prejudice and Sense and Sensibility (either book or movie form) as both are classic Chic Lit, easy to read and watch. For something a little more serious and Dramatic but with romance I recommend L.M. Montgomery of Anne of Green Gables fame. Her books and the movies based on her books are good for girls of all ages. If the afternoon is long, and a movie is the way to go, I recommend the Canadian show “The Road to Avonlea” this is a seven season series based on L.M. Montgomery’s books “The Story Girl” and “On the Golden Road.” If comedy is more your line, there is no shortage of movies from classics like “It Happened One Night.” For Books try one of the many books written by fames humor columnist Erma Bombeck.
In the event that you prefer to spend your entertainment time with one or more friends, them the movie option still works, but another means of entertainment could be a game. Games always depend on the individual, and can be as classic as Go Fish or Canasta, to as modern as Tellustrations. Again, the point is spending an afternoon in a relaxing manner, so go ahead and plan your relaxing time, whether that time be a day, afternoon, or hour.